A Very Special Day
Well, where to start? At the beginning … Yesterday, the day after Thanksgiving sales were on. We left home around 8am and headed up the road armed with a list. We bumped into our neighbour in Walmart around 15 minutes later. She said she had been queuing outside with her friend since 3am, with the doors opening at 5am. Apparently the queue was already very long by then. There was a specific computer on sale that she wanted to get, but had no chance of it as it turned out when they opened the doors that there were only 15 of these computers so they counted out the first 15 people who wanted them and she was way back at around 50. The portable TV that we wanted was also sold out by then. Obviously you need to be there from around 10pm the night before! So we got a few things, including a Christmas tree, and went home.
I know, it is very early to be putting up the Xmas decs! But not by US standards. A lot of houses have them up already as they wanted them done in time for Thanksgiving. We would not have done them this soon, but we have friends from England arriving next week for a few days, then the weekend after they are gone we are having a Christmas party at our place, so wanted the decs up for that, and this is the only time we have to do them. So we got all the decorations out of storage (3 boxes of them!) and watered the tree (several times, that thing just soaks it up).
And here we come to the best bit ….. I opened the first box of decorations, removed a layer of paper from the top, and found a small grey box. I opened it and closed it again really quickly, looking up to see Gordon had appeared from nowhere and was standing at my side, asking me to marry him! I had closed it thinking I had found it by mistake and had now spoiled his surprise, but he had left it in there deliberately for me to find. He then went out onto the balcony and produced a bottle of Champagne from under the bar-be-que. It was plenty cold enough, so we cracked it open and drank as we decorated. It seems he had done a lot of sneaking around recently, picking up the engagement crosses and champagne and then hiding them without me knowing anything about it. A lot of work had gone into it. Yes, I did say engagement crosses. They are not a regular cross, but rather a Cross of Lorraine. I had wanted to get one on a necklace for years, but nowhere does them ready made. So then when we were talking about getting married, we talked about getting a Cross of Lorraine made, instead of the traditional ring, which suites me as just the wedding ring is enough rings for me. Then Gordon suggested that he get a cross made for himself as well. I thought that was the best idea of all. So we went to a recommended jeweller and worked on the designs with them. So I knew it was coming, but I did not know they were ready, or that he had got them or when he would do it. And that was the first time I had seen the finished product, and I was REALLY pleased with them. His is in white gold, with a recessed area in black, and mine is white and yellow gold. For photos see Gordon’s blog http://www.chicago-usa.blogspot.com/ as I can never remember how to put photos on this thing! So today we are going back to the jewellers to choose chains to put them on. And then we can wear them. I kept taking them out of the boxes yesterday to look at them over and over.
And then, as if the day could get any better, we looked outside and realised it was snowing, so we got engaged and put up our Christmas decorations with it snowing outside!
Happy Thanksgiving
Well, tomorrow is a major holiday here. They seem to make more of a deal of this than Christmas, but to us it is just an extra couple of days off work for Gordon. He gets Thursday and Friday off, so a nice long weekend. The forecasters are predicting the coldest Thanksgiving Day for almost 50 years! We are not planning on doing much for it, just eating, watching TV and dog walking. Will not be roasting a turkey, just eating whatever I can find in the freezer.
The day after Thanksgiving, Friday, is apparently the biggest sale day of the year here, and they advertise it as the perfect chance to get all your Christmas shopping. Pretty much all the shops seem to have a sale and are opening anywhere between 5am and 6am, and most of them are having extra special earlybird offers for the first few hours of the day, to try and encourage everyone out of bed early with their Thanksgiving hang-overs. So we may go and check out some of those, though not quite as early as all that!
A New Addition To Our Family
Well, we had been thinking about doing it for some time, and now we finally have. We got a dog. She is called Reggie and is half boxer, half Labrador, age 6 years.
We got her from a guy at Gordon’s work who has kids that do not know how to treat animals. Apparently after one too many times of being pulled around, Reggie bit one of them, so instead of punishing the kid for mistreating the dog, they are giving away the dog.
She came to live with us last week, so only had her 4 days so far, but she seems to be settling in pretty well. All they brought with her was a cage (not wanting to use that), a food bowl, half bag of food, and a red neck tie tied on her. Needless to say the very first thing we did as soon as the previous owner had left, was to remove the neck tie! And she looks a hundred times prettier without it too. She whined a little the first night, and is used to living in a house, so does not understand yet that this is an apartment building where lots of people live in the one building, so every time she hears a noise upstairs or outside our door she barks. She should get used to it in time though.
Apparently she used to sleep in her cage all the time, it was her bed, although they did not actually shut her in it. Americans seem to do that a lot with their animals. Most dog owners seem to have a cage or indoor kennel of some sort and a lot of them shut the dog in it when they go out and leave the dog alone. To us it seems cruel, so we would rather not use it at all, but decided to have it here for a few days to help her make the transition to her new home. We put it in our bedroom and the first night she slept in it, but the second night she just slept on the floor at the side of our bed. So then we went and bought her a few things, including some treats, a water bowl, and a new bed. She has since slept on her new bed next to our bed and has taken no notice of her cage.
We are also walking her more than she has been before, from what we can gather. The previous owner brought her round for a visit about a week before we got her, and I had a lot of questions about how she is in the car if she is left in there, how she is if she is tied up outside a shop, her routine, etc. And from what he said they basically never took her anywhere. They ‘walked’ her but her longest walk was about 30 minutes once per day, the rest were just long enough for her to do her stuff. They never took her in the car, or to the shops so couldn’t answer most of my questions. It seems dogs are not treated in the same way here as they are in the UK. I think here mostly they are a bit of a status symbol, whereas in the UK the dog is considered part of the family, another child, and is treated as such.
We took her yesterday in the car with us to Wisconsin to check out some possible wedding venues. It was a long journey, we were out for about 12 hours, with various stops, and Reggie was a star. She laid down on the back seat the whole time, and when we had to leave her in there alone, she did not bark or get into the front seat at all. So now we know the answer to that question. I have not left her tied up outside any shops yet, and it is getting so cold here that I am not sure I will try that for a while now. Also, she does bark at people and other dogs occasionally, not everyone, just some set her off, so I wouldn’t want her doing that while she is tied up.
She also needs to go on a bit if a diet as she is a bit tubby. She was fed a lot of human food before, from the table we think, so we have cut that out and with the extra exercise as well, she should be in shape soon.
Hallow-When?
Well, our first Halloween here did not live up to the typical image of American Halloweens!Halloween itself was actually Monday, so that was the day for trick-or-treating. Or so we thought. I was really looking forward to getting some kids at the door, to see all their costumes. We were not sure how many we would get as we are living in an apartment building where you need a key to get in the main entry door from outside, but there are children living in the building, so I thought we would at least get them coming round. But not a single person knocked on the door all night. It was really disappointing. We had heard a statistic on the news earlier in the day that something like 94% of all American children would be going trick-or-treating that night, but I don’t know where they all were.However, we did get to do one Halloween thing. We went to the local Six Flags amusement park on Friday night, which is about equivalent to Alton Towers, only a lot nearer, about 20 minutes drive. We went with friends Steve and Kristy, and had a great night. They really did a good job at the park, everywhere you looked there were decorations hung up, and tons of people dressed up as scary monsters, wandering around and chasing people. It was quite busy, so we didn’t get to go on all the rides, and I don’t like them much anyway, but am happy to sit and watch everything else going on whilst waiting for the others.We also put up some decorations on our balcony, and stuck a thing on our front door, which all looked really good, so here are some photos of that and the Six Flags trip.